尊重 ─ 重複一次別人的話

(谢谢大姐的分享）

一個大老闆管理員工頭頭是道，可是卻怎麼也管不住自己的兒子，直到有一天，他試著重複兒子說過的話後，一切有了改變 .........................

請看以下故事

李先生，是一個在台中經營出口加工廠的老闆，工廠加公司有五六百名員工的規模，由於自身積極的投入，不管是在業務上或是在管理上，均有相當的成效，在運籌帷幄間，指揮若定，威風八面，宛如領軍千萬的大將，好不神氣。

可是，他就是對他兒子沒辦法，那種代溝，對他們父子倆，就像是台灣海峽般，怎麼樣也無法跨越，每次一見面，講沒三句話，又是拍桌又是摔門，弄得家中雞飛狗跳。

這天，又是因為兒子的晚歸而再度上演鐵公雞，就在雙方面紅耳赤之際，兒子突然間就住了口，然後一字一字的說出： 「爸，再這樣吵下去也不是辦法，我能不能請你把我剛剛說的那句話說一遍給我聽？」
「啊？！」 李先生真的嚇了一跳，壓根兒也沒想到有這怪招。
「你說……………你說……………作父親的太能幹，當然看不起兒子。」
「不對！你再想想看，我是這麼說的嗎？」
「渾小子！那你怎麼說的？你自己說過的話，你自己為何麼不再說一次？」
兒子突然間笑出聲：「你看！從頭到尾，我說什麼你都沒有在聽，那些話是你自己想的， 我可沒這麼說。我們不是要溝通嗎？ 那麼，我說什麼，你重複一次給我聽，再輪到你說，我來重複」。
「喂！哪有那麼多美國時間在那邊重複來重複去！！你是真的想氣死我啊！」
「爸！我們就試試看吧！否則這種爭吵會沒完沒了的，你再想一想我到底是怎麼說的？」
李先生想一想，終於承認，「我真的想不起來，你再說一次好了」
「好吧！我說，父親很能幹，兒子一方面很佩服，一方面怕自己跟不上，心裡多少有點壓力。」

李先生冷靜一想，他說的合情合理，自己怎麼會那麼激動？
結果，這天晚上，他們父子兩竟然可以談上兩個小時而不吵架，這個效果 連李 先生也意想不到。

一覺醒來，雖然睡眠不足，但李先生可是神精氣爽，一大早就到公司。
因為早上要開一個重要的採購會議，討論的是未來所要採購價值一千萬的機器，到底要用美國貨好、還是日本貨好。
依採購部的報價，日本製的價格便宜，東西也不差，可是工程師卻主張買美國貨。
會議場上， 李先生讓總工程師發表意見，這是一種表面上的禮貌， 總工程師也知道，老闆作久的人，多少喜歡獨斷獨行，什麼事情早就心有定見，經驗告訴他，老闆問他只是個形式，誰不想省錢？
老闆要買那一種大家早就心知肚明，因此他無精打采，說不到五分鐘就說沒意見了。

若是往常，李老闆總是會在這個時候大唱獨腳戲，享受那種權威感，今天竟然是…………
「總工程師，我來重複你的要點，你看我說的跟你的意思一不一樣；日本製的機器，價格雖然便宜，東西也不錯，可是將來如果出了毛病，要他們來作售後服務，問題就來了，他們的人因為語言問題無法跟我們直接溝通，找來的翻譯對精密儀器又是外行，機器壞在哪裡，我們無法充分瞭解，下次再發生一樣的問題，還是要請他們的人來，說不定還會耽誤生產時間，如此算下來，買美國貨還比較便宜！」
隨著李老闆的重複說明，總工程師眼睛漸漸亮了起來，他打起精神，再次補充，就著麼你一言我一語的，大家滔滔不絕的討論了起來…………

如果是要吵架，彼此只顧著反擊對方就好了，但如果是要解決問題，就應該誠心去理解對方的想法，那麼，重複對方的話，一方面可以讓對方放心，知道你們之間沒有誤解，另一方面，也可以讓你在反擊或下結論前，把對方的意思消化一下，通常，這時你會發覺，吵架不再是吵架，而是積極的溝通了。
如果不先放下怎能結善緣?
每個人的成長背景不同，所產生的性格自然不同，相對地每個人所執著也會不同。
雖然，我們凡夫俗子都是在貪、瞋、癡、慢、疑、五欲中遊盪。 因性格差異上，產生的執著分別深淺不同，而導致的果報也不同，

人與人相互的溝通是很重要的課題，面對來自不同的族群，所生的問題在自己人生歷練上都是成長磨練。
如果，我們不能先放下自我的意識主觀，怎能心平氣和、充滿笑容，站在對方的立場著想，用心為對方做事，結下善緣呢？
如果不能覺察自己的偏執，就會被自己的好惡所蒙蔽，也就會理直氣壯的拿著自己所執著的價值標準，去衡量外在環境。
合乎自己的標準，就起了貪愛心，不合標準，就起了厭惡心，這個分別心，就是煩惱的根源。

刘若英 - 落跑新娘

這個決定 是多麼艱難
愛你 卻選擇離開
並不是 我總把孤單 當成習慣
未來並不如 想像中簡單

我也不是 不需要疼愛
你永遠 無可取代
再不敢 唱起那歌詞最後一排
「有個男孩 愛著那女孩」

抱歉我 我知道自己不負責任
雖然我 很認真想過 和你過一生
為什麼 會逃避這一刻
你握住我的手 越溫暖越疼

抱歉我 我應該對自己負責任
當你說 你都能理解 我痛哭失聲
害怕失去一個人 才想回到一個人
我會 把這份愛存放在 心的最底層

我也不是 不需要疼愛
你永遠 無可取代
再不敢 唱起那歌詞最後一排
「有個男孩 愛著那女孩」

抱歉我 我知道自己不負責任
雖然我 很認真想過 和你過一生
為什麼 會逃避這一刻
當朋友都羨慕 現在的我們

抱歉我 這次想對自己負責任
當你說 你都能理解 我痛哭失聲
害怕失去一個人 才想回到一個人
我會 把這份愛存放在 心的最底層

這個決定 是多麼艱難
愛你 卻選擇離開
再遺憾 也好過不快樂的分開
你會懂得 這是我的愛

Marketing

What is marketing?

1. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and say: "I am very rich. Marry me! "
- That's Direct Marketing"

2. You're at a party with a bunch of friends and see a gorgeous girl.One of your friends goes up to her and pointing at you says: " He's very rich. "Marry him."
-That's Advertising"

3. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and get her telephone number. The next day, you call and say: " Hi, I'm very rich. "Marry me
- That's Telemarketing"

4. You're at a party and see gorgeous girl. You get up and straighten your tie, you walk up to her and pour her a drink, you open the door (of the car)for her, pick up her bag after she drops it, offer her ride and then say:"By the way, I'm rich. Will you "Marry Me?"
- That's Public Relations"

5. You're at a party and see gorgeous girl. She walks up to you and says:"You are very rich! "Can you marry ! Me?"
- That's Brand Recognition"

6. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and say: "I am very rich. Marry me!" She gives you a nice hard slap on your face.
- " That's Customer Feedback"

7. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and say: "I am very rich. Marry me!" And she introduces you to her husband.
-"That's demand and supply gap"

8. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and before you say anything, another person come and tell her: "I'm rich. Will you marry me?" and she goes with him
- "That's competition eating into your market share"

9. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and before you say: "I'm rich, Marry me!" your wife arrives.
- "That's restriction for entering new markets "

最初的梦想

歌手：范玮琪



很有意义的一首歌。

The 11th Husband

(Sharing from an email)

A young man married a beautiful woman who had previously divorced 10 husbands. On their wedding night, she told her new husband to "Please beg entle; I'm still a virgin". *

"What?" said the puzzled groom. "How can that be if you've been married ten times?"

"Well, husband#1 was a Sales Representative; **he kept telling me how great it was going to be.
"Husband # 2 was in Software Services; he was never really sure how it was suppose to function; but he said he'd look into it and get back with me.

"Husband # 3 was from Field Services; he said that everything checked out diagnostically but he just couldn't get the system up.

"Husband # 4 was in Telemarketing; even though he knew he had the order, he didn't know when he would be able to deliver.

"Husband # 5 was an Engineer,** he understood the basic process but he wanted three years to research, implement, and design a new state of the-art method.

"Husband #6 was from Administration; he thought he knew how but he wasn't sure whether it was his job or not.

"Husband # 7 was in Marketing; although he had a product, he was never sure how to position it.

"Husband # 8 was a Psychiatrist; all he did was talk about it.

"Husband # 9 was a Gynecologist; **all he did was look at it.

"Husband # 10 was a Stamp Collector; all he ever did was........ God I miss him.

" But now that I've married you, I'm so excited".

"Wonderful", said the husband, "but why?

"Your're with the *"GOVERNMENT.. This time I KNOW I'M gonna get SCREWED."

Just like...

Dance like no one is watching
Love like you'll never be hurt
Sing like no one is listening
Live like it's heaven on earth

(Sharing from Eunice)

Love Letter from HR Manager

(Thanks Qi Jun for this sharing)

To, Juliet Grade 7.0 S.M

Sub: Offer of love!

Dearest Ms Juliet,

I am very happy to inform you that I have fallen in Love with you since the 14th of October (Saturday). With reference to the meeting held between us on the 13th of Oct. at 1500hrs, I would like to present myself as a prospective lover. Our love affair would be on probation for a period of three months and depending on compatibility, would be made permanent. Ofcourse, upon completion of probation, there will be continuous on the jobtraining and performance appraisal schemes leading up to promotion from lover to spouse. The expenses incurred for coffee and entertainment would initially be shared equally between us. Later, based on your performance, I might take up a larger share of the expenses. However I am broadminded enough to be taken care of, on your expense account.

I request you to kindly respond within 30 days of receiving this letter, failing which, this offer would be cancelled without further notice and I shall be considering someone else. I would be happy, if you could forward this letter to your sister, if you do not wish to take up this offer.

Wish you all the best!

Thanking you in anticipation,

Yours sincerely,
Romeo
HR Manager

點名遊戲

游戲規則

被點到名字的要在自己的博客裏寫下自己的答案，然後去掉一個你最不喜歡的問題再补上一個你的問題，仍然組成20個問題，傳給其他8個人，列出其他8個需要回答問題的人的名字，還要到這8個人的博客裏留言通知對方—-你被點名了，被點名者不得拒絕回答問題，完成遊戲的人將會永遠得到大家的祝福。

這8個人要在自己的博客裏註明是從哪裏接到的，並且再傳給其他8個人，讓遊戲繼續下去，不得囘傳。被點到名字的人將會得到大家的祝福，並且所有美好的願望都會在不久的將來實現。

點名者 Jacez.com 之 我的秘密花園

1.小时候的理想是什么？

*長大

2.喜欢雨天还是晴天?为什么?

*晴天

3.最喜欢的颜色？

*海藍色

4.如果有机会的话，你最想对你的他说些什么？

*當時想說的話

5.你最想去哪个地方？ 为什么？

*都想去


6.最受不了自己哪个缺点？

*愛睡覺

7.如果有不开心的事情，你会怎么办？

*看心情指數而定

8.最害怕失去的东西？

*寄于希望的東西

9.五年内比较现实的目标是什么？

*學有所長

10.遇到喜欢的人，你是勇敢表白还是默默关注？

*默默關注

11.你愿意跟Jacez一起祈祷,希望第18题的愿望会实现,希望他健健康康,快快乐乐活到一百岁吗?

*願意

12.你希望你的另一半具备的条件是？

*可以和我聊天

13.至今最令你后悔的事是什么？

*都不想看過去,所以沒有最後悔的

14.你最讨厌怎样的人？

*沒有耶

15.你的志愿是什么？

*做個有用的人

17.你认为遇到什么样的事情才会令你觉得人性很黑暗？

*沒有朋友親人

18.如果能让你实现一个愿望，会是什么？

*身邊的人都快快樂樂的

19.圣诞节快到了，想跟谁庆祝？

*他

20. 觉得人生最重要的事情是什么？

*把所有學分修好

更換的題目: 15. 今天的你有開心嗎?

被點名的: 金瀛, 慧娟, 婉蕾, 冠宏, 彥琛, 明偉, Ker Chean, Chen Shang

用马来西亚的天气来说爱你

歌手：阿牛



以前听这首歌都没有特别的感触。在经历了有春夏秋冬的天气后，对这首歌特别有感觉。:) 对我而言，马来西亚的天气，是热情的象征。

月亮圆

歌手：山脚下男孩



很喜欢他们的歌。谁有他们的专辑呢？希望你能与我分享。

童年颂

歌手：山脚下男孩



想念这组来自日新的乐团+学长。 也把这首歌献给所有在工作的朋友们。

腳踏車

歌手: 王識賢



台語歌總讓我覺得都很憂傷.但這首歌卻讓我覺得有甜蜜的味道.越來越喜歡台語歌了!!

家后

（感谢爱珍的分享）
歌手：江蕙

爱到才知痛

歌手：黄乙玲

用心去感觉对方的感受

(感谢家豪的分享）
作者：吴若权

我常常想，人會有那麼多煩愁悲苦， 絕大部分原因是太過執著於「我」， 放不下的全是「我的」，丟不開的， 也都捨不得一個「我」。 我要、我希望、我得到、我委屈、我失去、我少了些什麼、我盼望﹔ 我要年輕、漂亮富有、舒適。 而別人的一切，若是能符合我的要求， 我就開心、就快樂﹔ 同樣的如果對方不能配合我的一切， 那麼，就感受到冷落、受到傷害， 轉化為憤怒、怨恨的情緒。

我們常說和誰談的來， 也常喜歡用氣味相投來形容朋友的契合。一對男女相識、相知、相愛的更高境界， 是心心相印，是心有靈犀﹔人與人之間，最完美的層次，是思想上的相通， 心靈能產生共鳴....這一切的一切， 之所以會發生、能達到，主要是建立在雙方面中間，有一座橋，能夠互通的橋﹔ 想搭起這座橋，第一個原則，就是要了解對方的感受，然後用心去感覺對方的感覺。

因為，在實際生活中， 感覺往往比道理、社會規範更重要， 尤其對感情籤細、思維敏銳的人，感覺，是一種相當主觀的情緒。 它不關是非，更不論對錯， 它不能用很理性的邏輯來分析， 也不適於硬性的規範， 完全是一層直接的情緒反映， 就是一個人的語言、動作所帶給一個人的感應。

如果有一位收入不豐的小職員， 為了補貼家用而努力兼差。 有一天，這位先生領了一千多的加班費， 興高采烈地買了鮮花回家，對太太說：「好棒喔！今天我領到加班費， 特別買了花送妳，晚上我們出去吃小館，看場電影，慶祝一下，好不好？」

這位賢慧的太太很勉強地笑著說： 「幹嘛買花，多浪費！你住賺的錢不多，還是不要亂花，在家隨便吃吃算了。」 基本上，這位太太沒有錯， 她講的也是實話，她是個好太太， 省吃檢用，持家有道。但是， 她讓做丈夫的很不舒服， 一大盆冷水潑下來，一直涼到心底。 癥結就在於，她沒有用心去感覺， 感覺丈夫的一番盛情。

還有一種情形，就是一方遭受挫折， 另外一方的反應與表現，所帶來的感覺。

比如太太到銀行取錢， 在回家的路途上不小心被扒走兩萬多塊錢， 心裡已經又氣又嘔了，沮喪得不得了﹔ 這時做先生的還一味地指責，不停抱怨，「妳怎麼這樣不小心？」 「妳這個人就是這樣粗心大意！」 甚至連陳年老帳都翻出來念。 這位太太丟了錢心裡有啥感覺？ 雪上加霜，氣上加氣！

假如，做丈夫的換一種口吻說﹔ 「這些扒手真的實在很可惡！ 好在妳人平安，也算不幸中大幸。 錢丟了可以再賺，要是人被嚇到才嚴重呢！好啦，別再想了，我們去吃飯吧。」

多用一點心，多加一份慧心， 多注意一下別人的感覺， 多觀察周遭人們的一切，在適當的時候，表達自己的關心、同情， 這不僅僅是一種最高貴的品格， 也是一份令人愉悅的體貼， 一份令人難忘的溫柔。

用心去感覺，感覺世間萬物， 感覺人間小事，感覺甜美、溫馨的快樂， 你會發現，我們居住的這個世界原是處處充滿了愛。

體貼是一種快樂體貼是一種非常高貴、細緻、接近完美的品質。

一個時時能體貼別人的人， 男性我們稱為君子、紳士﹔ 女性稱為溫婉可人或淑女，一個知道體貼別人的人，必然懷抱溫柔，必為性情中人， 也一定是一個值得交往信賴的朋友。

懂得體貼的男人，一定是好丈夫、好情人、好長官、好領袖。 懂得體貼的女人，絕對是好妻子、好母親、好朋友，好的讓你時時想念的女人。

只是，這麼美好的一份情愫，一種人性品格， 卻逐漸地，一點一滴地在我們社會中剝落消失。

彩虹

歌手：周杰伦



下雨天的凌晨三点，听着这首歌，心情滑下坡。感动...

回忆

爱的代价
歌手：张艾嘉


星期五这一天，突然回忆起以前与家人一起观赏电视剧的情景。从琼瑶的爱情苦情片，金庸的武侠片，各位神明的生平故事到铁面无私的包青天等等等等。青青河边草，包青天，哪咤，望夫崖，三千金，关公传，土地公传，神雕侠侣，书剑恩仇录等等等等。这里写出的只是当时我所看过的十分之一。 突然间，很想念以前的时光。真的很谢谢爸妈。因为他们没有禁止当时的我们观看这些电视剧。也因为这样，我才有这么多美好的回忆；也因为这样，我才会热爱华语；也因为这样，我的中文程度才不至于太差；也因为这样，我才有美好的童年。走过的日子，不管当时有多苦，回忆过去时， 总会很甜很甜...

朋友，微笑的走过每一天。 让我们的回忆，都是甜甜的。

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(Thanks Kiang for sharing this email with me. And thanks to the author of these articles. )

TRUST
Trust is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.

A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call.
She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence.
She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer.
When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB.Sorry , I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is."

Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".



NO POINTING FINGERS
A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?"
The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you."

We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face.
Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war.
We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.
If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.



CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one."
The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please."
"Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest."
The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television."

There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband ,because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife.
Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship.
Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.



NO OVERPOWERING
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another,or demands too much.
People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage.
Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character."
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.
It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations.



RIGHT SPEECH
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation."
Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other,we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.

A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site.
A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted,"Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school."
On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me.Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker."
She answered ,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you."

Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.



PERSONAL PERCEPTION
Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison.

A couple bought a donkey from the market.
On the way home,a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey?"
Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them.
Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?"
Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.
Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman."
The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey.
Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you."
Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.
It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river.

You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.
Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..



BE PATIENT
This is a true story which happened in the States.

A man came out of his home to admire his new truck.
To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck.
The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment.
When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.
Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands.
When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, " Daddy,I'm sorry about your truck."
Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back?"
The father went home & committed suicide.

Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge.
Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love.
Trucks can be repaired.
Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't.
Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.
People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

小亲亲

（以这首歌献给一位在近期刚注册结婚的朋友）
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歌手：范玮琪

最喜欢爱着你专注的眼光
聆听我说的每一句话
因为你所以幻想晴天娃娃
把乌云统统赶到别的地方

亲亲笑　亲亲笑
亲亲知道有多爱你吗
把头靠在你的肩膀
能感受到最暖的心房

最喜欢你送给我的西洋装
让幸福穿在我的身上
全世界我只为你一个人漂亮
你一样不再为爱飘飘荡荡

亲亲笑　亲亲笑
亲亲知道有多爱你吗
把头靠在你的肩膀
能感受到最暖的心房

亲亲笑　亲亲笑
亲亲知道有多爱你吗
把头靠在你的肩膀
Key要这么高是要整死我吗

p/s: 这首歌是在范范哲学家专辑里属于较开心和温馨的歌，希望可以让听的人有个好心情。

你是答案

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歌手：范玮琪
作词：姚若龙　作曲：王雅君

如果世界　忘了旋转　谁用春光　让冬夜温暖
如果星星　不那麽灿烂　谁还会向他许愿期待他陪伴

如果今天　泪光闪闪　谁让明天　值得我乐观
如果怕风　少了安全感　谁把我放在宇宙中心宠爱

而你是我的答案最确定的答案
像走在一条花开的路不会错过美满
缘份转几个弯　证明我们不会走散
学会用眼神牵手那才浪漫

你是我的答案不变的答案
有了自己的天使　做什麽都显得勇敢
顺着梦的沿岸　只有收获没有遗憾
被握着手心看的未来　永远蔚蓝

而你是我的答案最确定的答案
有了自己的天使　做什麽都显得勇敢
顺着梦的沿岸　只有收获没有遗憾
被握着手心看的未来　永远蔚蓝

p/s: 这首歌是在范范哲学家专辑里属于较开心和温馨的歌，希望可以让听的人有个好心情。